Here is a little background on how I met my wife and best friend still today.
I have been at the game of marriage 13+now.
My wife and I did not date from the beginning but we did become friends that understood the life of the other, and their family before it became romantic.
Through many events I decided I was done “dating” to find the one, God was going to bring her to me or I would remain single, but I would not keep up this game of trial and error with my love life, I was done.
For the next year+ I did remain single and cleared my head, prayed like all get out and then I saw my friend that had been there all along, and she still is today. Now doing a great job with my girl of 11 and boy of 6.
The above is from a reply to another blogger.
I really feel that getting to the end of yourself is not a bad thing, it is time to get a clear head and hear from God on the matter.
Many people want answers, yet we don’t, or didn’t stop to listen, this is where journaling to hear from Jesus comes in. Jesus wants us to have peace in our relationships even more than we do. So give Him a chance to talk to you and show you the path.
This has been coming to me in my times with Him, ‘Walk in my ways and I will show you the path’. It seems a little like Ground Hogs Day the movie, this phrase keeps coming and each day I seem to learn more about what He means.